LinkedIn slut?

Posted on Friday 24 November 2006

I get a couple of LinkedIn invites a week from people I don’t know. I’m kind of at a loss for what I should do with them. It feels kind of slutty (in a social network kind of way) to accept them. At the same time I feel kind of bad rejecting them — they could be very nice people. In the end I think I have to ignore them or eventually the “random people who I don’t know” will totally eclipse people I actually know in my network. At the same time, I’ve never actually used my LinkedIn network so maybe I should try and collect as many connections as possible in case I can sell them on eBay someday. Now that I think about it, the only time I go to LinkedIn is when I get a connection request from, well, a random person.

Perhaps LinkedIn could introduce several different kinds of connections. Something like:

  • Somebody I know and trust
  • Somebody I know and don’t trust
  • Somebody I know (and don’t know if I should trust or not)
  • Somebody that randomly requested a connection that I accepted because I felt bad rejecting them

Even better would be if LinkedIn could introduce user rating, perhaps a on a scale of “slutty” to “super prude”, that is a ratio of invites sent to invites accepted. That might just be the kind of self regulating system that I need.


  1.  
    Rus
    November 24, 2006 | 5:31 pm
     

    I would be honored to be connected to you under Link Type #2: “Somebody I know and don’t trust”

  2.  
    November 25, 2006 | 3:19 pm
     

    I’m pretty much a hard-ass when it comes to LinkedIn. I’ll only accept invites from people I have met in person. I usually silently reject (or ignore) anything else.

    BTW, have you noticed a significant uptick in invites since we joined Google? I’m amazed at the number of “former colleagues at Google” who’d like to make my acquaintance. not to mention the usual recruiters.

  3.  
    Scott Johnston
    November 25, 2006 | 11:32 pm
     

    Rus, how about “Somebody I know and has cooked Portobella mushrooms on my stove?”

    Ken, I’ve gotten all kinds of “former colleagues at Google.” I have no idea where these people come from or what they could possibly hope to gain. I keep being scared they are people I’ve met with several times and I just don’t remember their name. Man would that be embarrassing.

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